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Why are you mad at yourself? We all have a hard time with that — especially loving and being a friend to ourselves. Your subconscious wants you to unite with [your ex] on some level for the sake of the kids. Compare the emotion you felt in the dream to any current emotions you have been having.
What issue right now in real life makes you feel the same way? Sure, your ex may anger you constantly, but what in particular, right now, is angering you?
When they finally get out, they get mad at themselves and they beat themselves up, and the dream reflects that. Do I truly forgive them? Do I hold any anger? How did you feel when you woke up from it? What comes to mind is what that dream is about — so maybe you need that quality back in your life, or maybe, if it was a terrible experience, you need to be aware that this could be back in your life again with someone else.
Did I get turned down for a job? Did something I pitched get turned down? Did it kill off your spirit? Did it kill off your ability to trust? Did it kill off your confidence? Yes,I keep on dreaming about my ex friend in which she a married woman, it starting to become a nightmare to me, I do not even think her or the people around I move on, so can explains why she popping up in my dream and to honest I don't like anymore because the way she treated me.
I wanted stop where can I get some advice or dream interpreter. I had been dating a guy for four and a half years, then we broke up and I've been in a relationship since. I can honestly say that I dream about the ex every night. Most of the time I'm ok with this, but like this morning I woke up and am extremely sad.
The first few months from the break up was extremely hard for me, because I received a text message saying that this is his new girlfriend, stop talking to him, etc and it really caught me off guard, because I didn't know he even thought about being in another relationship and never spoke a word about it.
This day, I'm ok with the point that he's moved on, I still think about him all the time, and I never do get to talk to him, so it baffles me why i almost always dream about him. You could be dreaming of what could have been or be wondering what it could be like to be with someone else or what other potential relationship you could have with someone else. The guy from middle school could represent your Animus, the unconscious masculine aspect of self.
These dreams may be showing you an internal conflict and your difficulty honoring one side of self within your relationship or internally but with struggles. Thank you for sharing your dreams. It sounds like you are processing a lot of emotions. The bathroom in particular tends to relate to emotional management.
Although you may not want him back or believe you have feelings for him, you may still be healing and feeling very hurt over the relationship. It sounds like you may need to continue to heal in order to be ready for a new relationship in the future.
Dreaming about your ex? A psychiatrist tells what it means!
You may have a lot of thoughts you need to work out. Am I not worthy of love? Is there something wrong with me? Am I not good enough? Am I lacking something?
Although you may want to move on, it sounds like it is important to explore how injured you feel from this experience so you can heal, learn from the relationship and move on. Hello, I am in relationship, probably one of the best ones I have ever been in.
I have been with him for about 5 months. But I was having dreams about a guy I knew from middle school. I am 19 now, and I was then. So it was quite a bit ago. I never dated him, but we both had an interest in each other. One day I finally found the courage to tell him, before the last week of school. But he told me he was not going to be going to school next year, that he was going to be homeschooled or something.
I don't remember. Anyway that was the end of that and o quickly got over it and fell in love with my ex, who I dated on and off for six years.
During that time i had been at random getting dreams about that boy, too many for comfort. Id say like 5? They were of him usually provocative in some manner. I didn't get any while single of course. Only while dating someone.
I had been clear on getting those kindof dreams up until last night. They don't often happen as you can see but the fact that I still get them concerns me.
I was in my old highschool and I was in class with my current boyfriend who wasn't really in the dream much. Then the guy I liked long ago came about, I ran over and hugged him. And I couldn't help it I made out with him. Even though in the dream I was feeling strong guilt and trying to get out of it. I felt awful and trapped. Like I had no control over it, but I still in the dream felt like I did.
It would eat me away inside knowingly cheating on someone who would never do that to me. Every moment of the dream I was with the guy I felt like I was fighting it on the inside, but just going along with it anyway. It was a vivid very clear emotion distinction that I was scared and stressed out about what I was going to do about it. Like what I was going to tell my boyfriend, and how I was going to get rid of the guy from middle school.
The sad part is for a bit of it when he guy from middle school would snuggle me and I would think about how I could just break up with my current boyfriend and that would solve the guilt over the cheating I can't control. That the guy from middle school is decent, and that I could possibly be happy with him instead. I felt like a coward and how badly I wanted to take back doing anything with the guy. How regret it, and how I don't deserve him, that he doesn't deserve this.
I liked the physical things that were being done to me like the guy grinding into me from behind as I would bend over. It was weirdly comforting? My current boyfriend wasn't there. He was kindof hiding our relationship and wouldn't cuddle me so I felt bad.
I was at the same school as him and the guy from middle school had started telling people I was his girlfriend and when my boyfriend found out he was angry and confused. I freaked out and wanted to tell him I can't help it, that I was sorry and that I didn't want it, that if I could I would break up with the guy and only have him. But I didn't, I couldn't control it, I told him it was a joke. I lied to him. He bought it. I felt like it was a constant power struggle, and when I woke up it felt real still.
Like the emotions were there and apparent to an extent I felt the need to text my boyfriend that I would never cheat on him. After a few mins I came to terms that it was just a Nightmare, a very cruel nightmare.
But it has me questioning myself and the relationship. Why would I subconciously seek affection elsewhere? One that I couldn't control at that. I am a pretty honest person with myself, I don't have interest in any one else in my life. Anyway that is what happened to me. I wish it hadn't, I feel like something is wrong with me mentally for dreaming about some kid I used to like.
Sorry for this being so long and drawn out. I feel guilty and bad. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I've had about dreams about a man I had strong feelings for. We had one of those relationships were your sexual, show affection, and very open with each other but you're just not "boyfriend and girlfriend".
This went on for about 8 months, but he just "didn't want any obligations" and I was the one whos feeling got all caught up. I guess even minimally he qualifies as an. X because weth admitted that we were only seeing ear when we were involved.
I dreamed once that my husband cheated on me with a strawberry it mean when you dream about your ex sleeping with your best friend?. Dreaming About an Ex? An Expert Explores 20 Reasons Why We all have a hard time with that — especially loving and being a friend to ourselves. a dream where you're getting back together and things are great — that's a good sign that you are . If you dreamed about your ex dating someone else. When we talk about dreams there are obvious, literal interpretations and then there are symbolic meanings. Dreaming about an ex, either friend.
Long story short he strung me along and I ended up very hurt and in some ways Istill recovering. In the thick of things it's understandable for me to dream. It's like he haunts me and I wont be able to move on. These dreams are very specific and I hope they're not trying to foreshadow anything I just want to move on.
For some reason we were in the same room together, and he was on Facebook looking at her profile right in front of me saying "I love her so much, I'm totally in love with her". Then we were at some formal like prom but I've been out of HS with the same group of people, some girls some guys, and when I look back over my shoulder he's with and talking to some other girl and I get all mad and walk away There was another dude, I was with he was actually really handsome, but for some reason I didn't wanna talk to him 6 days in between.
This time I was in my catering uniform I met him on the job in. I was chatting with a male coworker, and he had to use the bathroom. We walk over to the men's room, which had a swinging door. I was angry. These were all within 2 weeks in November.
Dreaming of your ex could relate to many things, as you already read in this hub. If the sex is great and you continue to think of it, you do have some feelings for him- attraction, desire, etc. It might be a good time to explore your own inner self and begin to grow and develop further before you decide to pursue a rewarding and fulfilling relationship with someone else.
Is it normal for me to dream about an ex who I'm currently having sex with until now? I know I don't have feelings for him anymore, but the sex is great! He pops up in my dreams every now and them, mostly when I'm stressed at work.
I'm single, no boyfriend, and I like my life that way. Can you help me clarify this? To answer some of your questions, I think your dream does mean something. I think there is a way for you to make your dreams stop- by resolving the issues they are presenting to you. And, I think this is normal and I do not see you making a big deal over nothing- this dream sounds significant to your growth and development.
Your dreams sound rather layered. They may reflect some hopes and dreams as well as feelings for your ex but it also sounds like your dreams are reflecting an inner dynamic and unconscious aspects that self that need expression.
Dreaming of being pregnant and having a child besides the obvious meaning of desire could relate to the potential for growth, caring for your inner child, and what your are nurturing in your life.
I am sure it is nagging on your mind that your dreams are predicting the future or showing you the future you are now missing because you two broke up.MY BEST FRIEND GETS A "GIRLFRIEND" - Brent Rivera's Dream Vacation EP 2
Although anything is possible, that wouldn't be my first impression of these dreams. He may have played a significant part of your life and the relationship and the lessons you have learned through this experience and break up may be helping you grow and develop as you set the stage for your future. This dream sounds like it is reflecting some of your feelings and fears related to your ex.
Since you are still in love with her and are now broken up, the dream may be displaying some feelings of anger and fears that she will move on. This sounds like a time in which you need to evaluate what you want.
It is possible you need to resolve these feelings and move on but it is also possible you may choose to attempt to reconnect with your ex and repair the relationship. My ex cheated on me and left me for the other girl 2 months ago. Before he cut me completely out of his life he told me that his life was getting difficult and we couldn't be together right now. He told me to wait for him.
Well I haven't seen or heard from him since we broke up. I am over the situation and am actively moving on with my life. We met almost 2 years ago. We were together for 9 months. I have been dreaming about him since I met him. These dreams have been extremely weird. One of the first dreams I had, my his, his mom and I went out to lunch. I was pregnant. At that time, I had no idea what his mom really looked like. Then when I finally saw her, she looked almost exactly like the lady that was in my dream.
Dreaming about the time spent with your ex –boyfriend in the past. If you were Dreaming about your best friend having love with your ex – boyfriend. If you had a dream about an ex-girlfriend, for no apparent reason, you life from them, I think I have a pretty good leg to stand on when it comes It doesn't make sense that one interpretation would be correct for you, me, your friend, and .. Filed Under: Dating Tagged With: Ex Girlfriend Advice, Self Help. However, if you are dating a best friend in the dream, it can be that your When the dream features dates with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, it usually suggest.
In another dream, and this oneis creepy he died. Then he came back as a ghost and touched me while I was asleep. Later on in my dream, I found out I was pregnant.
About 3 or 4 months into our relationship I dreamt that we had a daughter. She looked like my ex, had his mother's hair, had his complexion, and she was 3.
Since we broke up, I've been dreaming about him almost every single night. One night, I dreamt that he was chasing me through the city. Another night I dreamt that we were having a casual conversation one the phone about the situation but neither one of us were hostile.
Here's the really weird part. The only difference is that in this dream we were separated. She looked exactly the same and she was 3. Any insight on this? Do these dreams mean anything? Is there any way to make them stop? Is this normal or am I just making a big deal over nothing? I would first perceive these dreams as wish fulfillment dreams. Dreaming that your ex is missing you, that you need to choose, that he wants to ask you out instead of a new girl all sound like things you wish would happen.
The dream may also be reflecting your current feelings. The people in our dreams often demonstrate our feelings about them. So if your ex is telling you he misses you, it could really mean you miss him, etc. When our current relationships are troubled, we often look back at our past relationships instead of looking forward. I would think part of the feelings coming up is the fear that you are losing your "back up" now that your ex is engaged to be married.
Perhaps it was always comforting to you that you had someone who loved you to fall back on. Although broken up, his engagement is a change in your relationship with him. You still have a relationship now even if it is not a romantic one. If you feel you have a gut feeling that your husband is cheating on you, it is important to confront it and resolve it.
You could be wrong. If you are wrong, it is likely your gut reaction is reacting to the past, your fears, and is having a negative impact on your relationship. If you are correct, then it is important for you to evaluate your relationships and address issues.
Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about two months ago. I left her because all we did was argue. She has been over hanging out the last three weeks. Neither ever cheated. Last night she was over here with my best friend and his ex-girlfriend. I had a dream that night that seemed very real. Every time I looked down my ex was staring at my bestfriend and my best friend was staring at her. I got so angry, I even woke up angry.
I thought it was so real I asked her why she would do something like that to me and she said "I have no idea what you are talking about".
After thinking I realized I was having a dream. Now Im confused about the dream. I love her and all but we argued a lot because of my family and friends saying things about her and she always denied it. Most times I found out she was the one telling the truth. Someone help please.
I was in a two year relationship that ended out of nowhere almost a year ago. I have been in a new relationship for about 6 months now. I have seen my ex boyfriend out at the bars recently, and have talked to some of his friends I am a senior in college. Recently I have been having very vivid dreams about my ex. I have 2 types of dreams about my ex. The first is where he comes back and tells me how much he misses me and I end up having to choose between him and my current boyfriend.
I have chosen my ex a few times, or I wake up before my choice. The second dream I am having is like last night's. I went out to eat with some of my girlfriends and my ex is at the restaurant on a date with some other girl. He ends up coming over to me and saying he really wanted to ask me on a date.
I had such a weird dream lastnight about my ex I am remarried and he is engaged to be married. I felt devastated. Finally he came over to me and told me he loves me and that we will be together I've been having some gut feelings that my current husband has been cheating, but he's always with me I'm nit sure what this dream means, but like I said my ex still tries to be back with me even though we are both in new relationships These dreams lead me to believe you need closure but not from him, from within yourself in some way.
These dreams sound disturbing for you but they may be helping you accept the break up, understand the relationship and move on with additional personal insight and knowledge. This rejection seems to have hit your hard. This may be something to explore. Relationships often trigger our core issues and may be an opportunity to address them.
The issues we have and the emotional luggage we bring to each relationships could have a negative effect on the relationship. Resolving these issues could help you have a more positive and fulfilling relationship with someone new in the future. I was in a two year relationship and he broke up with me on text message. He told me he realized he didn't love me and had been in denial for a long time.
He added that he missed his friends and wanted to hang out. When i asked why he hadn't told me before he said he defaults to tell people what they want to hear. That was 2 months ago. I have been having almost daily nightmares about him from him laying beside me to last nights dream: I was asking him for some closure and he told me that i was the biggest mistake he ever made and he never loved me.
These dreams haunt me all day and I need to know what they mean and how to stop them. It disrupts my sleep and also affects my mood during the day. This dream sounds like it is showing you your feelings and you are processing them. This dream may be prompting you to address the reason that caused you to reject his proposal in the first place.
Was this fear? Was there an element in the relationship you were not happy with? Were you simply not ready to be married at that time? As for your ex, what he wants, feels, thinks, chooses to do is out of your control just like your rejection to him was not in his control. If I was in your shoes, I would repair the friendship, understand his feelings, and go from there.
If you feel like this is a biological clock dream and it likely is. I would see it as a combination of you reconciling different aspects of self, looking back and what could have been, and a desire for a child.
This dream hints that you may be tied to your ex emotionally yet may not have been happy with the nature of the relationship and know it is not a healthy relationship to be in. Another perspective would be that all characters in the dream are aspects of you- your ex, the child, his mother. You take on all of these points of view. The loss of the child could be a loss of potential.
You are looking back in this dream and recognizing a lost opportunity. This does not mean you cannot look forward and find a different yet similar opportunity in the future. Break ups can mean so much more for us than just an end to a relationship. Did it feel as though she slipped right through your fingers? Seeing that someone wants something else or something you cannot give can be an injury to the ego. You ask when the dreams will end.
They should change over time as you process the break up, your feelings about abandonment and re-calibrate psychologically in order to fulfill a need she may have been fulfilling for you. This will take time and will be gradual. If you feel as though you are being tortured by your dreams or they are not progressing, you may want to consider seeing a therapist who may help you identify areas that need your attention faster than you would on your own.
Perhaps part of you believes if he only saw you again or if you could only get his attention enough things will work out and you'll get back together. The dream sounds like it has an element of wish fulfillment. It might even relate to an aspect of self dream as well. Dreams can be complicated at dreams the older we get, it seems, seem even more complicated. I think your dream is about so much more than either being afraid of being unfaithful again or finally closing the door.
I think this dream is showing you that you have some unresolved feelings that need to be addressed before you can fully commit to the man you feel you truly love.
These feelings may not be so much about your ex as much as about yourself, the nature of your relationship with your ex and the parts of self you lost going through that experience and breaking it off with this person. Did you learn of new character traits you may not necessarily like since going through this abusive relationship?
Maybe you have disowned parts of yourself as you broke up with this ex. The dream could also show you how your ex influences your relationship now, how easy it is to take an unhealthy turn, and could be reminding you to continue to work on the issues that led you to make unhealthy decisions and accept to be treated in an unhealthy manner.
I had a very vivid I was looking for an ex lover, and he wanted me to continue to see him I was walking away as I didn't want to hidden or treated as something to be ashamed of. I looked back to him home one last time to walk away I walked up to her she looked like me as a baby but with bright bluegrey eyes.
I was married nearly 10 years, had 3 children together. She left me 7 months ago. I have dreamt of her nearly every night since that day. This could turn out badly and be detrimental to your relationships with both of them. BTW — there are divination techniques that some people use with success. I am neither encouraging nor discouraging its use. I am only telling you that the cards worked for me.
Additionally, it is possible that he is somehow influencing your dreams. I believe that some people have lucid dreams in which they can enter the dream of another sleeping person. To some, this seems unlikely but it does happen.
However, I believe that a symbolic interpretation of the dream is more reasonable. The animus is an archetype from the depths of the unconscious. The animus is always a man and is only found in the dreams of women. He has the potential of going through four stages of development. Most women do not reach the later stages. If reached, its attainment could take many years. Identifying his stage can be a little tricky. It sounds like he is at the second stage of development where the animus appears as romantic lover or a man of action.
And FYI, one of the best ways that we can get more helpful dreams is by listening to them and trying to understand what they mean. I had a dream of dating a friend who I knew for several years. We just got closed recently and hang out for only 1 time.
I do not have any feelings for him but this is my 2nd time dreaming of him. It was just a casual date with him,I look deep into him and I can feel the feelings I was in love in that dream.
The 1st time was he kissing me multiple times.
Does anyone possibly know what this means? Thank you for all your work on this site. All of us hear all about the lively mode you convey vital things through this website and cause response from others about this point then our own child is without a doubt learning a lot. Enjoy the remaining portion of the new year. I need help, me and my guy best friend have been having romantic dreams about each other that take place in the future.
The thing is, I have a boyfriend and I love him. I know I do.
But these dreams we are are both having, is it a sign? That he will go to the military which is his dream and I will be his wife?
Having an ex pop up in a dream may have deeper meaning. he and a friend of his are there and say that I'm still good looking to each other of my girlfriends and my ex is at the restaurant on a date with some other girl. I don't really think dreams mean anything. But if I guessed maybe when you were with him you always had a fear he was cheating? or like you. Simply dreaming about your ex does not necessarily mean you want to reunite and It indicates that you need to relax and let go of the distrusts to date again. I had a dream that my ex boyfriend best friend call me asking me why we break.
Will it be someday or is it just a coincidence? I was in a fair ground, dating a popular kid at my school who I had kissed at a number of points I barely know the popular kidthen I went into a black castle and realized something was off, and went to tell my friends so we could investigate there was also a lot of stairs.
My friends became locked in the castle watching movies, as school bells sometime ring, one of my friends from school was about to kiss me I was sitting next to him then he just suddenly disappeared, then I turned to the right and saw the classroom which was full of kids who had piles and piles of dust on them the whole classroom appeared dusty and I saw the old lady walk to the front, I also realized the kids were meant to be dead.
I think this is one of the most important info for me. But should remark on few general things, The website style is great, the articles is really excellent : D. Good job, cheers. In the first dream we started dating and I remember feeling happy about being able to be physically near him.
Dream about best friend dating ex
I care for him very much as a friend, but lately I find myself talking to him more than my own boyfriend. Can someone help? Does this mean my subconscious is attracted to him more than my own boyfriend? I had a dream this morning where I was going on my first date I have never been on a date, in fact I have only ever asked one girl out and she told me no. I was in Wal-Mart We have Wal-Mart in the small town that we live in, but this one was laid out much differently, shopping for salsa and I was looking for one of the large glass bottles.
I could only find small bottles on an end-cap, so I saw that there was an employee a few feet behind me on the left hand side so I turned around and asked her if they had any big bottles.
Let me just explain that as soon as this girl she appeared to be about my age, I am a 19 year old male stood up I realized that outside of her kind, helpful demeanor, she was absolutely gorgeous.
We both smiled at each other and I left with my small bottle. I briefly woke up and then I dozed back off and fell back into the same dream. I was asking my Mom We are very close, if she would give me a ride to a local restaurant and she said that she would evidently we had already agreed on the place and the time of pm for the date, I was then texting the girl whose name, I believe, was either Patty or Petty that my Mom had yes to giving me a ride.
Then I saw her up at the gate to our driveway and just as I opened our front door and started to walking out of it, I woke up. Leave this field empty. Post navigation To dream that you are on a date represents your need for self-discovery and self-awareness.
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